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Abstrakt
Due to the major social significance success of marriage is a very important issue both in terms of cognitive and practical. The review of the literature shows the approach to the success of a marriage in recent years which emphasizes different factors modifying the quality of the marriage. The development of psychology as a science, as well as continuous changes in social relationships invite to new exploration, allowing for a fuller recognition of the success of a marriage, which is the purpose of the present article. Using the new direction of psychology – psychotransgressionism, characterized marital relationship as an interpersonal relationship in which are undertaken two types of activities: protective and transgressive. While functioning in a marriage, people undertake two types of activities: protective and transgressive. Protective measures are efforts to overcome the current problems, leading to the preservation of relative stability. The second type, the transgressive act, involves the intentional going beyond everyday reality of marriage and doing something new or in a new way. The couple wants to make a difference in their relationship and they expect it to improve, deepen, but they also take a risk, which may make it worse than it is now. The more transgressive actions spouses take, the more opportunity they have to get know each other and experience the joy of being a community in which they want to participate. The success
of a marriage is the result of a specific form of transgression, taken by a marriage by both spouses. It consists of identifying the emerging problems, finding the causes and make joint efforts to overcome them. Article closes an attempt to operationalize the network theory of personality regarding the marriage relationship.