The role of grandparents in the modern family. Functioning of multi-generational families from the perspective of psychology

Abstract

Despite the prevailing cult of youth we are dealing with an ageing population. It results in delaying taking up family roles, including the role of grandparents. There are plenty of stereotypes associated with old age, especially negative ones. Elderly people are thought to be dependent or infirm. Research shows that these stereotypes have little to do with reality if we look at people taking the role of grandparents. Nowadays, grandparents are largely physically active, sometimes they still work, and they look after their grandchildren willingly. Undoubtedly, grandparents play an important role in a family’s life. Their relationship with grandchildren is valuable to both parties. Grandchildren get, inter alia, love and care, giving grandparents a sense of accomplishment and being needed. Contact with the youngest members of family determines the emergence of specific styles of communication and ways of getting on with them. These styles differ, for example, depending on sex. This article aims to identify the roles of grandparents in the modern family and points out the specifics of multi-generational families from a psychological perspective.